Post natal depression help?

Well, I haven't had my baby yet, but I've seen something on tv about a guy who was basically treating his wife like she didn't know anything about her own baby, because she hadn't had a lot of experience before having a child of her own. He needs to realize that the baby will let them know when she needs something. He is probably making her feel like a bad mother because it seems like he is trying to take over, whether he knows it or not. Maybe she should ask him why he thinks he's the mother and why he thinks that he should be putting his wife down for following instinct? If the baby isn't fussing or crying, nobody needs to be constantly watching her, waiting for her to cry, or waking her up and messing up her natural rythm. He should try to see that a baby is a baby and he can't control when she cries and needs fed and changed! He needs to give his wife a chance and back off so she can be a mother and spend time with her baby. It's his responsibility to help too, but if he's not giving her a chance, then he's being really selfish.